I have another idea | and with this you guys could help.

Grr.

Usually when people ask for advice in the "which of these do you think I should do", you can actually tell which choice they feel would be best for themselves (even if they don't yet realise it themselves) by the way they write the various options.  Not here.  I can't get a feeling from the options as to which way you're leaning.

I'd opt for whichever person you have the most unselfish relationship with, and will discuss the matter with you without worrying about their own personal stake in the whole deal (ie; whether they like or dislike the one or Ionela).

Sorry, but that's all I can come up with.