Big Dumb Face

Yes, you could, but in the end, would they have changed anything? Know now, that everything the future holds, is shaped by his death. It will have effect on everything that happens to you from now on, as it has had an effect on you. You had your reasons for doing things the way you did back then. Unless you didn't do what you felt was right, there is nothing to regret. Our present, is all our history combined.

What do/did you think a person should do when a loved one dies? Answer this, and then do so. You mind is now clouded by the shock, and thus thoughts that come to mind now, or before the rebirth of you, tend to become clouded. Draw upon what you were before.