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the only thing that disturbs me is young boys/girls of ages 14 and under who claim to be bisexual/gay.  i am sorry, but at that age, there is no way of telling which way you swing, and while experimenting is well and good, it's a bit extreme when u see 12 year old girls getting off with their 'girlfriends' and holding hands.  it does seem to be girls rather than boys, probably because gay males, with the exception of graham norton and brian from big brother, seem to be shunned by most straight males.  but anyhoo, thats my opinion, i just think u should wait til u r emotionally and physically mature until you make decisions about your sexuality.

flatly, i disagree.

different people according to their environment may develope at different rates, and become aware of feelings and emotions much sooner than you or i.

as i said, its just my opinion, and many people i know agree with me.

well, that's nice.

but as i said, i disagree, and i think i explained exactly why quite precisely.

in my opinion, your opinion simply does not take many factors into account.

Well, well. What's this. Foe and AmandaKat starting to take potshots at eachother? In three threads already.

honestly, this has nothing to do with the things that are going on in other threads.

it's not as though i formulated this response in reference to her opinion.

this is an opinion i've had for a LONG time.

I knew that, but it gave me the first impression of you being intentionally pissing Amanda off:

Quote: from JuggleFoe on 11:54 pm on Aug. 1, 2001
well, that's nice.

but as i said, i disagree, and i think i explained exactly why quite precisely.

in my opinion, your opinion simply does not take many factors into account.

The first line can easily be taken as sarcasm

The second part can easily be taken as an insult, even as it clearly is not when though through,  towards the intelligence of the other participant, as can the third part.

I wouldn't take it as an insult, nor would I much care about insults anyway (unless I'm in the mood to raise dirt), but little things like that can get people go off more spectacularly than Hiroshima. I've seen you do it a couple of times.

What about eleven year olds who are 5'8, bi-sexual, and living on their own because their lesbian mother abandoned them for a whore and their father disappeared? who are also supporting a drug addiction that started when they first toked up at the tender age of six? soon after they were molested by their next door neighbor?

Are you trying to imply something Amanda?

Quote: from Glacialis on 4:59 pm on Aug. 1, 2001

I wouldn't take it as an insult, nor would I much care about insults anyway (unless I'm in the mood to raise dirt), but little things like that can get people go off more spectacularly than Hiroshima. I've seen you do it a couple of times.

yeah, i'm a condescending prick. i think that's becoming common knowledge.

nothing being implied- just saying that at ages 14 and under, u r not emotionally mature.  u r a child, and as a child not capable of making the kind of life changing decisions about your sexuality that so many of u are making.  I'm sure there are child geniuses who are an exception, but, in general, i think people should wait til ages 16+ til they decide their sexuality.  everyone, and i mean EVERYONE goes thru a period of being attracted (even just slightly) to a member of the same sex, this usually at the ages of 11 to 13.  so its very difficult to know if these feelings are permanent or not.
i think that these are sufficient factors to base my opinion on.

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nothing being implied- just saying that at ages 14 and under, u r not emotionally mature.  u r a child, and as a child not capable of making the kind of life changing decisions about your sexuality that so many of u are making.  I'm sure there are child geniuses who are an exception

yes well...i'm still appalled. Every person's level of maturity and emotional stability varies.....greatly.....very greatly.

we all know u r an exception- u have exceptional circumstances- and emotional maturity doesnt vary THAT greatly, on average.  

Considering what Fallen has gone through (at least what I've put together and heard ), it's no surprise to me that she's as she is.

Personally I find people who've gone through great misfortunes at a young age to be in general more interesting than 'normal' people. They usually have interesting points of view and knowledge about life that can't be obtained by mere thinking.

What do you mean? What have you heard?

Because I know no one would go running their mouth, you know, because thats what I do.

No one else!

Well, read through the board and you'll see. Little hints and clues. Many by you. Some single instances of referring to something...

It doesn't take an Einstein to figure out the general hue of your past with all this material. I do have a soft spot for people who are suffering/have suffered, for they often see things much clearer than those annoying 'normal' people, who just reconstruct their cloudcastles everyday, and drink, party and do drugs to drown the grim reality they live in.

There's a bit of a masochistic ascetism in me. All I want is that peaceful melancholy to rule my mind once again, and for good this time.